Sunday, July 25, 2010

People Have Disagreements so Get Over It!

I've noticed over the past several months that many friends and family members sometimes do not see eye to eye on certain things. As I see it, based on what I have observed over the months, these "Disagreements" are usually nothing more than two people (or sometimes more than two) being different, NOT one being right and the other being wrong or even downright evil!

Only because I care, it is beginning to bother me when good friends and / or close family members disagree and argue about a certain topic and they feel that one has to be right and one must be wrong. I've noticed that because often times neither is wrong or right, only different, they never come to a settlement of any kind and then they begin to call each other stupid or evil or etc.

I've noticed that disagreements like these often have only one thing to lose or to gain... One get's what they want and the other does not get what they want. That's all! There is NO great sin either way. There is absolutely NOTHING immoral that happens either way, rather ... one gets what "they" want and the other does not. Do you "Get" what I'm trying to say?

There is NO earth moving result no matter which way it goes! There IS NO good guy or bad guy! It's simply that, one must give in to the other in order to have a peaceful solution. The problem is, many people would rather die a horrible death and take the whole with them than to give in or to "Lose" an argument. People by nature are often impulsively self centered. However, people are also given by nature an intelligence to understand and control their impulses, but too many people prefer to argue to the end of the earth rather than "Give in".

Now I know that there really are evil nasty people in the world, and that will always be and there's nothing we can do about that. Those "Evil" people usually have no friends so they sorta don't count anyway.... but enough about me LOL! ;-)

This post has been nothing more than my own opinion based on my own observations and is not meant to be considered "The Gospel" or anything like that. I just felt like writing this today, that's all.

Have a great day and ... Stay Boosted!

Gary.